Alright I am really mad tonight....
I have a real issues with girls. Yes, I am one, but the rudeness and the bullying is unbelievable.
My daughter has a really good friend, but her friend has a friend that does not like my daughter. So her friend calls and invites Samantha over. So she rides her bike over and her friend opens the door and says you can't come play here and then she slammed the door in my kids face! So Samantha comes home bawling. After I heard what happened I was about ready to go there and give them a piece of my mind. As I am trying to make my kid feel better, this friend starts texting her. She said she was sorry and it was the other girl that had slammed the door and that she didn't mean it. Ok, but the other friend was still there. They then started to call and make more rude comments or hang up and then my daughter is crying all over again. The next time they called I answered the phone and I could tell it was on speaker, but some girl said, are you ready to calm down and listen to us. To that I replied, this is Samantha's mom, she is very upset and if you are going to keep calling and make her feel bad, you can save it. To that they hung up on me.
Then they started to text. And after awhile Samantha stopped replying.
Then they called again. This time the "good" friend said will tell Samantha to come over tomorrow, I told her no. To that she asked why. Then I told her that I didn't appreciate a door being slammed in my daughter's face, not mention the rude comments made to her. Also that you don't let someone talk to/treat your friend like that. To that I heard nothing, so I kept going. I told this girl that Samantha really cares about her, but she is not going to go over to her house and be treated like that. Then I got hung up on, AGAIN
The next thing I know, the friend is sending her texts about how she doesn't want to lose her as a friend and that she felt bad because I was mad at her. Seriously, now she is gonna turn this on me???
I am so pissed. It never ends.
I want to follow my daughter around and just start slapping every person that is mean to her.
You know bullying can affect you for your whole life. It took me years to get over the bullying that was done to me, but the person was not my friend;s friend. And I didn't have to watch my friend sit there while someone made fun of me or hurt my feelings.
I am want to scream! I should've gone running tonight, cause I really feel I need to get rid of this bad energy!!!
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I went running, I should have taken you with me!!!
I don't know why people (of all ages) feel like they can treat other people that way, saying rude things and such.
We love Samantha!! She is beautiful and smart and talented and is so sweet. She doens't need friends like that. I hope she is feeling better today.
I'm of the opinion that just because one person is friends with someone, doesn't mean I have to be friends or even hang out with the other person they are friends with.
i bet the nice friend didn't know the mean one said or did anything until it was too late.
it's the age.
she needs to start asking who is going to be there.
take it up with the other girls mom.
she probably had no clue what was going on a her own house and would be embarrassed to know your daughter was treated like that.
if the mom wasn't there , they shouldn't be playing in the first place.
odd numbers of friends is always hard and someone always gets left out.
some people can't ever play with 3 friends and do better one on one.
My mom would have slapped that child so hard she would have been seeing the Crucifixion!
I'd call the other girls' moms and demand what my sister calls an "AA" meeting (AA= Attitude adjustment)
Where are the parents, anyhow??
Aye,
Scratch
I think when I grow up and hv children,I'll be just like you,LOL
Thats absolutely insane. Girls can be cruel these days and its getting worse. There are so many other kids who im sure would appreciate your daughters friendship !
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